According to Harville Hendrix our brain dumps PEA
when we identify someone who can:
(1) Finish our childhood business.
(2) Give us back what we lost to the
socialization process of growing up.
Singles search for love armed with a list of qualities desired in a mate/lover,such as honesty, fidelity, loyalty, sense of humor, intelligence, warmth...
Yet when that person appears they say,
"He/she is a really nice person,but nothing clicked,
just no "chemistry."
Unfortunately,
we hear that "click" when we
recognize our original parent/child situation.
That's when our brain really gets those
phenylethylamines and other chemicals moving.
